Viewing the body – spending time together
Spending time with the person who has died affords you the opportunity to have private and valuable time together before the service. Those who take this time, feel that it aids their grieving process and adds to their memories in a positive way while beginning the process of accepting the reality of their death.
Viewing is of course a very personal choice, with each family member making a decision that it right for them.
Gifts of love such as cards, letters, photos, small gifts and flowers can be left in the casket with your loved one. There are a few restrictions upon what can be placed in a casket for cremation; we are happy to advise you on this.
Your loved one will lie in a casket of choice, dressed in the clothes that you have provided, looking their best.
Most times they will look like themselves and sometimes they will not look quite so much like they did.
This depends upon factors around the mode and cause of death. There are other factors that can influence how they will present, but we do everything we can to present them at their best at all times.
For some who have not looked good at their time of death, after embalming and preparation, they can look so much better, which is a great relief and source of joy at a time when sadness prevails.
Taking the casket home enables you to spend more quality time together before the service and again is a personal choice.
Should children be encouraged to view a dead person?
This is a decision for the parents to make. In our experience children are far better at dealing with death than we give them credit for and they like to bring gifts, drawings and significant items to to place in or on the casket, thus expressing their own love and loss.
A viewing can be a time to write messages of love on the casket. Some caskets are able to be written on by family and friends. See Caskets and Urns
Should you choose to view, then some form of embalming treatment will be necessary for hygienic preservation and presentation of the body and thus maintain the dignity of the deceased. See Embalming, Clothing and Dressing.
We have private and comfortable viewing facilities where you can spend time together, either individually or as a family.
We will ask you at the time of arranging the service if you wish to spend time together.
If you have any questions in regard to viewing please don’t hesitate to ask us.
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